Dear Steven Chbosky

 

Dear Steven Chbosky 

A Review of Dear Evan Hansen by Nick Olszyk

 

Distribution Service: Theatrical

Year: 2021

MPAA Rating, PG-13

USCCB Rating, A-III

Reel Rating, Two Reels            

 

            There have been musicals about everything under sun including the Revolution of 1848 (Les Misérables), American cheerleading (Bring It On: The Musical), the doldrums of corporate life (How to Succeed in Business Without Really Trying), and a biography of hermit nun Wendy Beckett (Postcards from God). Yet there are some subjects that could do without the Rogers and Hammerstein treatment, and Dear Evan Hansen has two of them: teenage suicide and social media angst. There’s plenty of good intentions and even skill involved, but the film is bogged down by a mediocre narrative, worse songs, and a theme that could be toxic to a select few – not exactly what the world needs right now.

            Evan Hansen (Ben Platt) is having a bad week. He recently broke his arm and is now starting a new high school. He has an unnamed mental ailment and, following his therapist’s advice, writes letters to himself to put a positive spin on the day. Connor (Colton Ryan), a bully from school, steals one of his letters and the next day Evan is confronted by Connor’s family. The night prior Connor killed himself, and Evan’s letter was found on his person. His family assumed that Evan was Connor’s friend since he “wrote” to him as his last act on Earth. At first, Evan attempts to correct them, but, sensing their sadness, decides to pretend they did have a friendship. Evan spins an elaborate fantasy about Connor as a wonderful person who was acting out of fear and frustration. Lie builds upon lie until Evan is leading a metal health charity in Connor’s name and dating his sister under false pretenses. Of course, the truth will come out, and the audience waits uncomfortably for the inevitable.

            The center of Evan’s predicament isn’t so much Connor’s suicide but the intense necessity of creating positive meaning from his action. Connor must be misunderstood. His violence had to be a cry for help. Only once, in a fit of total frustration, is someone completely honest. “I’m glad he’s gone,” Zoe admits. “He was really mean.” Yet her grief is quickly dismissed, and the masses are drawn to Evan’s elaborate ruse. Instead, Connor is instantly canonized. No one prays for his soul or doubts his eternal salvation. It’s hard to fault the film as even Catholics succumb to this temptation. Long gone are the days when suicide was considered an irredeemable sin. Yet it must be admitted, however compromised his faculties, Connor’s last act was one of grave matter. If you want a beautiful reflection on hope for those who die this way, I recommend a homily by Fr. Don LaCuesta, a masterpiece on God’s mercy so good that his archbishop suspended him. It is right to celebrate the good in Connor’s life and pray for God to forgive him. These two things are not mutually exclusive.

            The film does a better job handling Evan’s “noble lie.” It would have been easy to continue the fabrication in the name of some vague utilitarian good. Fortunately, when the lie is uncovered, Evan fully admits and apologizes for his failing. At no point, did he actively or maliciously promote this fiction for his own benefit, yet it ultimately has the result of hurting everyone around him. Real healing comes when Evan tacks down lost footage of Connor playing guitar at a therapy meeting, a confirmation of his talent and dignity. Only the “truth will set you free.”

            Another egregious error is faith in social media with little regard for its enormous dangers. Every teenager at Evan’s school lives at least half their lives online with more Facebook friends than real ones. Nearly every interaction between the characters is somehow mediated through technology, whether hushed remarks through a cell phone or confessions on YouTube. All of this is a prism that distorts reality and becomes the catalyst for further harm when Evan’s lie goes viral. Yet when the truth is exposed, the backlash is minimal, and Evan gets out of the digital web unscathed. He is among the lucky few.

            It must be said that as a graduate of American schooling and teacher well into my second decade, Dear Evan Hansen (and most high school film) commit the same boring cliques rather than present a realistic slice of teenage life. Every student is either a saintly misfit or forgone bully. The president of the student body herself is on Xanax. Oddly enough, kids are doing just fine. Even in 2021, most students are neither sexually active nor using drugs. Adolescence is difficult but survivable. It’s not glamorous, but it would be refreshing just once to show a well-adjusted teen worrying about her SATs, going to prom with her respectable boyfriend, and attending church on Sunday. Trust me, I know hundreds.  

            Despite an occasional bright spot, Dear Evan Hansen is dull and vapid with a lackluster soundtrack and terrific actors trying desperately to prop up a failing narrative. Just prior to writing this review, I had the opportunity to speak with director Steven Chbosky. He was kind, gracious, and intelligent. I have no doubt he, and the entire crew, really believed in the value of this project. His body of work, especially Wonder, is filled deep Christian dignity in a way rarely rivaled since Capra and Ford. Despite my personal disappointment, this picture not a bad work that undervalues its characters; it is just so eager to be relevant that it loses nearly all its potency.

            Depression, anxiety, and all other mental illnesses are real problems, and medical interventions are often necessary. Yet nothing on this Earth can even come close to salvation of Jesus Christ, who conquered death itself. He gives meaning when the world offers none. You truly are “never alone,” because He is with you. He gave up his life for you, not as collective but an individual. No human can be your end, much less your Twitter followers. Christ is your best hope.

 

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