Holy Connections

 

“Holy Connections”

A Review of Mother Teresa & Me by Nick Olszyk

 

Distribution: Theatrical

MPAA Rating, PG-13

USCCB Rating, nrated at the time of this review

Reel Rating, Four Reels            

 

             Even among the grand hagiography of canonized men and women, , there are some who stand out above others as “supersaints.” In the same way the 6th century is known for Benedict and the 12th for Francis of the Assisi, Pope St. John Paul the Great and St. Teresa of Calcutta will be the jewels of the 20th century many millennia from now. While there have been many productions made about the little Albanian nun, none have been especially good at capturing her spirit. Perhaps this is because she was never concerned about her legacy, only bringing the love of God to the most desperate. Which is why a film that doesn’t have her as the protagonist is the best to capture her essence.

            Kativa (Banti Sandu) is a young Indian-Briton violinist with bright future when she becomes pregnant unexpectedly by her deadbeat boyfriend. Her family, who have been trying to marry her off to a Brahman level family for years, insist she get an abortion. Frustrated by everyone in her life, she retreats to her aunt’s house in India who volunteers with the Missionaries of Charity. Kativa’s journey towards spiritual and social conversion is intertwined with the story of Mother Teresa as she gradually goes from an immigrant teacher to a one-woman hospital to a reluctant worldwide celebrity. The story culminates in a startling revelation that exposes an unexpected connection with the saint and gives Kativa a new and better path forward.   

            Mother Teresa & Me is not a biography in the strict sense but rather a biographical reflection through the eyes of a future person, like the fantastic Julie & Julia. It hits all the major points of her life, and Jacqueline Fritschi-Cornaz’s performance is the best I’ve seen. Publicly, she is brave, courageous, and compassionate, always smiling even on her darkest days. Yet privately, often in prayer, she faces spiritual challenges, dryness of the heart, and pleas for divine comfort. Ever since the publication of Come Be My Light in 2006, the world has known about her fifty year “dark night of the soul” where she felt God’s absence yet continued heroically with her vocation to the poorest of the poor. The film faulters a bit in its portrayal which somewhat understandable due to its abstract nature. Fritschi-Cornaz does an excellent job portraying spiritual pain but also puts words in Teresa’s mouth that ring false. She certainly expressed challenges and anguish with her spiritual director, but she never lost her faith or went against God’s plan as could interpreted from some scenes.

            Central to Kativa’s decision and Teresa’s ministry is the infinite value of every human life, no matter what his or her state. On the back burner of the whole film is Kativa’s impending decision about her child. At first, she doesn’t choose abortion purely to stick it to her family. As she volunteers with her aunt, she learns to love even the most difficult people. At first, she could barely look at the disfigured faces and emaciated bodies of the sick and dying. By the end, she is tenderly bathing them and relishing every smile they give her. Mother Teresa stands as the most prominent antidote to the narrative that pro-life advocates don’t care about people outside the womb. She would embrace the poor one day then chastise the abortion industry the next.

            Another reason Mother Teresa & Me is so effective is the attention paid to naturalistic settings. It was filmed in India, including real street people ministered by the Missionaries of Charity. There are no visual or makeup effects here, just raw humanity. It’s so easy to criticize Mother Teresa behind a computer screen but when you see and smell her everyday existence, it is much harder to deny her heroism. It reminded me of the great Italian neo-realists who filmed in the ruins of WWII with non-professional actors.

            There’s a famous parable where a man encounters a young boy on a beach throwing starfish back into the sea. He laughs at the naivety of the lad and says, “there are so many. You can’t possibly save them all. It doesn’t matter.” The boy then picks up a single, desperate echinoderm and tosses it to safety. “To that one,” he replies. “It mattered.” Mother Teresa and her order have saved millions of these starfish, including both Kativa and her child, and this is the best film I’ve seen that documents this beautiful gift God gave the world.

           

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